I'm tired of my own shit

I Am Tired Of MY OWN Shit – I Have To Do The Work

This is the shit I’m tired of about myself   Ever since I’ve begun to understand things more clearly, I’ve become more and more tired of my own shit. I’m pretty pissed actually. Because I realize that I am the only one holding myself back in life. Can any of you relate to that? Choices. All of it comes down to…

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The time I temporarily lost my mind

The Time I Temporarily Lost My Mind

I lost my mind. I was experiencing mental breaks from reality.   I’m not even sure of exactly when the mental decline actually began. Thinking back, I often wonder if it came on gradually at first, and I was just unaware. All I know is at some point, it  quickly escalated into full on mental breaks from reality. These breaks…

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Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness

So, I know I’ve been MIA for awhile…   Wow. A lot has happened since my last post on Jess Is A Mess. I’m sure the majority of you are aware of the craziness that has evolved since we began the year 2020. I don’t know about you, but my life has changed dramatically, and in a number of ways.…

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don't feel good

What It Really Means When I Say “I Don’t Feel Good”

Saying “I don’t feel good” doesn’t always mean it’s physical. Most of the time when I say it, that’s how it’s taken. Everyone always says, “you never feel good”, and it’s frustrating. I know it’s a bad habit I’ve created, and I’m working on breaking this habit. But when I say I don’t feel good, a lot of times what…

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Being an Empath – What it’s really like

What it means to be an Empath. Being an Empath is not always an easy thing to live with. Especially when a lot of the people around you are extremely emotionally draining. This is because as an Empath, you tend to be overly in tune with the energy of others. Not just in tune, you also tend to actually absorb…

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Bipolar mother

How My Bipolar Mother Continues To Affect My Life

When you have a Bipolar mother, your life will never be smooth sailing. Ever. I have a Bipolar mother. I have already written about what it’s like growing up with a bipolar mother, so I’m not going to go back over that hot mess. Instead, I want to talk about what it’s like as an adult to have a mother with…

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negative people suck

5 Honest Reasons Why Negative People Suck

Negative People Suck Why do negative people suck? I’m glad you asked. Because I’m going to tell you why. And I’m going to do it in my classic Jess style – honestly, and in my own words. First, there’s the obvious. I mean, duh. Negativity in general sucks, so of course negative people suck. That part is pretty self explanatory.…

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